In the past six months, I have experienced a glimpse of what it’s like to live with a physical disability. In the last 6 weeks, I have experienced what it is like using a wheelchair. It has opened my eyes to the shortcomings of design, the lack of accessibility in public spaces, and the way life becomes more limiting when you can’t easily overcome these obstacles.
I was fortunate to have people supporting me throughout my journey. But there were still moments of feeling completely alone and helpless. Those moments were tough. And they made me wonder:
💭 What happens to those who don’t have the same support?
💭 What about those whose conditions require even more care?
💭 What do they do when help isn’t accessible—or affordable?
The Hidden Struggle of Loneliness
Recovery is lonely. And I don’t think we talk about that enough.
As a business owner, I’ve struggled with missing networking opportunities, client meetings, and the ability to physically show up for my company. Running a business is already hard. Add in extra challenges, and it becomes even harder.
“If they don’t see you, they forget you.”
That phrase has been playing in my head. I know it’s not always true, but the pressure to be present and seen is real. When you’re not able to be out in the world, it feels like life is just passing by. And even though we live in a hyper-connected world, loneliness doesn’t just come from isolation—it comes from feeling unseen, unheard, and like you don’t fit in.
Work Is Personal—And We Need to Show Up for Each Other
On LinkedIn, I’ve noticed a shift. Conversations about layoffs, mental health, and personal struggles are becoming more common in professional spaces. This isn’t just a trend—it’s a sign of what we need to pay attention to.
The lines between work and personal life have blurred. Work is personal. And if we want to create better workplaces, businesses, and communities, we need to care more.
We can’t keep excusing bad practices or turning a blind eye because “that’s how it’s always been.” That’s not good enough anymore.
We Can All Create Room for Others
In this image, you see me sitting at the bottom of a set of stairs in a wheelchair.
We have all faced challenges in life. Some challenges were unintentional, while others were built into the system—designed in a way that separates rather than includes.
But here’s the thing: someone looked at these stairs and thought, How can we make room for others? That’s why we have ramps. That’s why we have lifts. Because someone decided that barriers shouldn’t define who gets to move forward.
We all have the power to do the same.
A Simple Way to Make a Difference
You don’t need to experience a life-changing event to realize how much support matters. You just need to listen better.
So here’s my ask:
👉 Take a moment today to look around you.
👉 Acknowledge someone who may be feeling unseen.
👉 Ask, How can I help?
You never know how much of a difference you can make in someone’s life with something as simple as that.
If we teach kindness at home, instill it in children, and preach it in faith—we should be able to practice it in everyday life.
Who’s one person you can reach out to today?
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